Decisions in life

Decisions are the most head-aching, mind-torturing, body-soaring kind of thing in life. They can't be avoided no matter what you do. But, there's always time to make that decision. Some decisions are urgent, some are not. Some are important, some are not. I thought that making a decision would be an easy task, that was at the young days of mine. Actually, I don't really get to make any decisions during the young days, it's normally our parents who does it. But for this kind of age now, that trend just had to go away. Well, it's sure that i miss it at times, but most of the times, i would be happy for what i chose, though sometimes it turns out quite badly. That's just part of life.

So, worst decisions I've made so far is the activities i join in school. I just seem to be more and more involved in different activities. Some times, i really wished that I haven't made those decisions. But, what's passed is passed. Just have to bear with it till the end.

Well, when making decisions, there are just bloody many aspects that we'll have to consider. Different kind of decisions require different things to think about. At times, we might have to think for other people's good 1st before ourselves. But, there too are cases where we have to think for ourselves 1st.

According to my observation, most people would first think for themselves 1st. So far, there are only a hand-full of them who thinks for other peoples good, neglecting about their own selves. It's always important that we should be happy making any decisions. Sometimes i just don't get why there are people that would be too kind-hearted that they don't even matter if they would not enjoy anything so long the other person's happy. I find that really weird though. It's like not having your own life anymore. Hmm....

So anyway, don't rush into making a decision. Enjoy doing everything you decided and never regret it.

P.s if i've offended anyone of you, sorry but i didn't mean it.

~Enjoy~
Jenson signing out.

Stresses

~Homework
~Pn Lim's retirement
~Exam results
~Friends
~Teacher who went up to morning classes to teach
~Girls
~Lost Kira-kira
~Kira-kira itself
~Sports
~Dream
~Goals
~Tomorrow

P.S If any of you are under pressure of doing something, you'll eventually end up in a bad mood, having a bad sleep and your thinking might also have some difference in it. These are common. But, after finishing or your work that you stressed to finish, remember to apologize or something to those who you treated badly during the stress period. It's also common that people don't do that.

And if you don't, you might... Lose a friend... Your friends are in your hands... XD

~Enjoy~
Jenson signing out

Boridays...

Yeah... A new word... Boridays... It means boring holidays... XP

Now i'm starting to get really bored of school holidays. I just can't find out why i could enjoy it so much during those young days... Apart from the Game boy - that we think that it's THAT fun at those days, but really sucks as you come to think about it now... I just can't remember how i spent my holidays those days. I tried my very best recalling those days, but nothing just lightens up that bulb though... Damn.

So, other than smsing, going for exercises - as entertainment - it's only me and that piles of books to study these days. Never really enjoy holidays nowadays man. Even if there was a gathering or so... I still can't feel that same fun feeling as i had back then. I just can't figure out why... Any idea guys (or girls)?

Do please give some ideas on doing anything, ANYTHING, no matter it's a lame thing or so, so that i won't bore myself to death, and i mean it...

Jenson signing out!
~Enjoy~
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~Slopes~

Is it just me or is a lot of thing just happening during this week? There are friendship problems around any corner i see. Relationship problems, friendship problems... Weird thing is, it all happens all in a week.

Well guys, or girls, it's not unusual to get in a quarrel or a fight or maybe a miss understanding between just anyone. The cause of it is simple, it's made by either one of you or the both of you. What I'm trying to say here is, whenever there's something not going right, don't ever turn your back on it and just walk away and leave it just the way you left it.

Why not have thoughts on trying to go back to the normal good-old-days when nothing would split anyone of you and the other person up?

Is it that tough for us to talk it out with the person you're having problems with? Can't a simple chat with all the thoughts in your mind be brought out and just let the other person know what you feel, what's the matter, what you're thinking about the matter...?

Guys, our life won't be as perfect and as smooth as you think it would be, we can't change that fact. Surely there will be ups and downs that you will face. But, whether or not you can handle it? That's the one thing we can change. You'll never know, when you have cleared up the wall between you and the other person, you might find that the relationship between you guys is much better than before. And that's the time when you will say ,"Damn, I'm sorry man. I was a fool, my fault, let's just be friends like last time from now on. Okay?" And the other person will be fighting with you again - in a fun way - saying that he/she's the one that's wrong.

So yeah, come on guys, it's always never late to try solving the problems between that someone. But it'll be late if don't try doing it.

Stay happy guys! Hope those of you - who thinks you are in that kind of situation - solves the problem and be back to normal. XD

One more,
DO not forget that friendship is everything in our life. No friends, no life...

~Enjoy~
~Top 10~
Jenson signing out.

What if?

If you're in a car. Your driver takes you to a place where there's a quite run down apartment and you see some frightening stare from some weird guys. Maybe your driver went there cause he wants to pass something to his daughter. And of course, it would be much more dangerous if you're in a posh car.

If your driver's just passing that something for a short while and he's sitting in a car. It's cool... But what if he gets down the car and leaves the door unlocked, went to the back of the car to deal something with his daughter? That's when you see those guys pointing right at your car and one of them just walks in an awkward way towards your car and gets real close to it??

What if you and your friend - who's in the car - which isn't alert enough and just lets the driver door unlocked? Any kind of things might happen of course... So, one should quickly lock the door. Then, you'll see that the guy just changes his look and eventually turns away as if he knows what we're thinking.

What if those guys were not thinking about your car, what if they had other plans?? You'll never know whether it's a positive thinking or a negative thinking. Never know...

If you tell your parents about how you felt when you got back home. They haven't even let you finish what you were about to say. They wouldn't let you express what you felt at that time. In the end, you still get lectured.

But till the end you still felt that you were sorry for your parents for maybe raising your voice on them, whereas they also felt down about the whole thing after all quarreled for a moment.

How suckish would that be?
Hmm???

Lucky me, most problems ends in a good way. X)



Jenson signing out.
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